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Farley-Estes & Dowdle Funeral Homes Inc
105 Capital Avenue North East
Battle Creek, Michigan 49017
Calhoun County
(269) 962-5527
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My father passed in July. When the funeral home directors came to collect his remains, I informed them that I – as next of kin – should be consulted regarding the arrangements, as opposed to my stepsister. The following day my husband and I went to the funeral home to finalize arrangements for my father’s services. The director assigned to us, Andrew Emerson, told us that my stepsister had the authority, through legal documents, to make all the decisions regarding my father’s services. After having been asked to produce those papers, he consulted with his supervisor and returned with a Durable Power of Attorney appointing my stepsister as my father’s agent. He told us that his supervisor reviewed the document, and the document did NOT apply to the funeral arrangements. (The document includes “However, the POA ceases at the moment of the death of the principal.”) All through the discussion regarding the arrangements, Mr. Emerson kept referring to my stepsister. I told him very clearly that what my stepsister had proposed had no bearing on the matter, and further, that my stepsister’s family should make arrangements for a separate memorial service, because the funeral was to be a quiet remembrance for my father’s biological family and friends. Mr. Emerson offered to contact my stepsister regarding my wishes, and I accepted. The following day I spoke with Mr. Emerson. He told me he had contacted my stepsister and that she understood the arrangements were out of her hands, and that my stepsister said her family would be attending the funeral. I informed Mr. Emerson that attendance was unacceptable, and that I would inform my stepsister personally so that the information would be accurately conveyed. I left a very clear message on my stepsister’s voicemail that the funeral was for my father’s biological family and friends, and suggested that my stepsister’s family conduct a separate memorial service. In that way, she could have total control over the arrangements at her services, and there would not be any drama at my father’s funeral. I know my stepsister received the information, because her niece commented on the matter to my son via Facebook. When the pastor I selected as officiate came to visit, he told me he had visited with my stepsister regarding the services. Why my stepsister was informed of my choice of officiate is beyond my understanding. Throughout our conversation, it became clear that my stepsister had given him information regarding the relationship between her and me that was irrelevant to the situation. In the end, the eulogy revolved around my stepsister’s family, and the pastor stumbled awkwardly over the information I provided to give comfort to my aunts and uncles. This would not have happened had the funeral home not provided information to my stepsister. When my family and I arrived at the funeral home the day of the services, I found the chapel full of items brought by my stepsister. I informed Mr. Emerson that most of those items were to be removed. At that point, Mr. Emerson informed me that my stepsister’s family would be attending the services. Another employee of the funeral home inserted herself into the conversation and told me I could not pick and choose who could attend the funeral, because I didn’t specify that the services were to be private. At no point during the planning stage did anyone at the funeral home advise me of the possibility of making the services private! Next, Mr. Emerson told me three persons would be delivering tributes to my father. This was the first time I had been informed of this decision. At the end of the services, I had planned to announce that friends and family were welcome to attend a dinner in my father’s honor at a local restaurant. Because of all the last minute surprises, I was at a loss for how to make the announcement, and there was confusion on the part of the pastor and Mr. Emerson as to who was to make the announcement. As a result, there were twelve people attending an affair arranged for 40 people. Due to the circumstances, it was necessary for me to pay as though all 40 were in attendance. (The restaurant did give me a slight discount due to the lack of attendees.) The appreciation cards provided for mailing after the services referenced only “friends” – nothing about family. I was not consulted on the selection of sentiments in the card. I believe funeral home put my stepsister’s wishes above mine because the president of the company (although now deceased?) used to be a neighbor of my stepsister, and his daughter, who also works at the company, was a playmate of my stepsister when she was young.

The Farley-Estes & Dowdle Funeral Homes Inc is one of the funeral homes in Battle Creek, Michigan. Listed below are other funeral homes, memorial chapels, mortuaries, and funeral service providers in Battle Creek, Michigan and Calhoun County.

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Gay, Adis E. "Bud" March 24, 2014
Adis Eugene "Bud" Gay, age 89, of Richland, MI, died unexpectedly Monday morning, March 17, 2014 at his residence. Bud, the son of Adis and Mabel (Smeltzer) Gay, was born on August 27, 1924 in Vandalia, MI and was a 1942 graduate of Kalamazoo Central High ... (MLive)

Funeral services set for 11-year-old Battle Creek boy March 13, 2014
BATTLE CREEK, MI -- Funeral services have been set for Nicklas Barnes ... The family will receive friends 4 to 8 p.m., Friday, March 14, 2014 at the Farley-Estes & Dowdle Funeral Home. Funeral services to celebrate Nicklas's life will be held 11 a.m ... (MLive.com)

Funeral arrangements set for Battle Creek man fatally shot during drinking game September 23, 2012
BATTLE CREEK, MI -- Funeral arrangements have been set for a Battle Creek man who was fatally shot by a friend during a drinking game Thursday. Funeral services for Nicholas Ullrich will be held at the Farley-Estes & Dowdle Funeral Home in Battle Creek 3 p ... (MLive.com)

Today's Funeral Notices September 25, 2013
John H. Byrd Jr.: 11 a.m. Friday, Sept. 27, in Greater Bible Way Temple Inc., Jackson. Betty J. Canfield: Noon Friday, Sept. 27, at Farley-Estes and Dowdle Funeral Home. Roger K. Fitch: 11 a.m. Friday, Sept. 27, in First Presbyterian Church, Marshall. (Battle Creek Enquirer)

Thomas M. Wondergem March 17, 2014
NE Battle Creek, MI and a 9 AM visitation (the same day) at Farley-Estes and Dowdle Funeral Home, Battle Creek, MI. Follow by interment with full Military Honors at Ft. Custer National Cemetery. (MLive.com)

Stella Jean Stevens obituary December 27, 2013
trips to Lake Michigan and North Carolina, and meeting with her Teacher Tuesday Group. A visitation will be held 2-4 p.m. on Sunday, Dec. 29, 2013 at the Farley-Estes & Dowdle Funeral Home in Battle Creek. A memorial service will be held 10:30 a.m. on ... (Daily Reporter)

When death comes home March 11, 2008
Instead, visitation was held in the foyer of his grandparents' Battle Creek home. "Back in those days, in the early 1950s, visitation in the home -- complete with casket -- was not unusual," said Dowdle, president of Farley-Estes & Dowdle Funeral Homes ... (MLive.com)
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